As you can see, I have an erotic connection with my feet.
To get a better feel for how it turns me on when Jake pays special attention to them, read my poem Kiss Me There.
Click below to see who else is feeling wanton this Wednesday:
As you can see, I have an erotic connection with my feet.
To get a better feel for how it turns me on when Jake pays special attention to them, read my poem Kiss Me There.
Click below to see who else is feeling wanton this Wednesday:
e[lust] is a monthly collection of articles and erotic writing from the best sex bloggers. This month’s edition includes my article Buying a Sex Toy: What You Need to Know.

Photo courtesy of A Couple of Wankers
Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #37? Start with the newly updated rules, come back June 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!
~ Top 3 ~
The Cheshire Cat – Alice felt whiskers tickle her skin and was wracked with sobs of fear. �Oh, little girl, don�t cry. You can stand much more than you think you can.�
Vaginal Overexposure? – I see a lot of vaginas. A lot. One of my favorite things to tell Vincent and his friends is, “I see more vagina that you ever will!”
Marionette – “I’m writing out a fantasy of mine, but I’m not sure what to do with some of it. I’m hoping you can help me figure it out.” “Yes Ma’am.”
~ Featured Post (Picked by Lilly) ~
Journeys – These insecurities are at the root of my fears. I don�t know how to combat them, how to turn those tapes off in my head.
~ e[lust] Editress ~
I�ve found a new secret to my G-spot – This g-spot thing might be hard to find since it can�t be mapped, but believe me it is real and with time, exploration, a good clitoral orgasm and a willing set of fingers and/or dildos you CAN find it.
All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the �read more�� tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!
Kink & Fetish
A Pixie Calls Me Daddy
Afterwards, kissing
Another Try at Topping
Bent Over and Exposed
Female Orgasm: Where Do You Get Off?
Hurts
Letting the Sadist Out to Play
more con-slut…
pain & sadism: how they intertwine
Tied Up and Tossed in a Corner
Waiting My Turn
Warm Up
Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Buying a Toy: What You Need to Know
Bring on the wanks
I want your sex
My Mother, The Whore
Poly Fallacies #4
Q&A # 3: Childhood BDSM Fantasies
Sticks and Stones…
Small World of Swinging
The Gauge
Us Lately
White and Nerdy
Erotic Writing
Around and ’round
Down
Golden girl
Hard Love
Hot sunny sex on a rainy day
It Ain’t Sex
I Want to be Watched
I made him watch me masturbate
Jealous
Lazy Day
Lost in Submission
Making out
On Display
Pussy Doctor
Perfect Cover
Pussy Eating- The Fun Way
Rack and Ruin part II
Shower Scene
The Third Date
Tickle Monster
Waiting for It
Watching Skylarks
“A poem is a naked person…some people say that I am a poet.”
-Bob Dylan
I’m not the only nude writer; check out this article I found on other writers who enjoy writing without clothes.
*This photo was one of Molly’s Top 3 Sinful Sunday pictures for the week! Thanks Molly!*
Inspired by fellow sex blogger N. Likes’ post Just Because It’s Funny, I decided to share how people find my blog. The Top 10 weren’t surprising, and all of them lead to a specific blog post or category of posts. I didn’t include repeats such as hitachi magic wand, hitachi wand, hitachi reviews, etc.. Here are the top 10 searched terms:
But I also want to share with you my personal favorites:
And the most surprising/random, with my explanations in ():
The Story of my 1st “Sex Toy”
I shudder in horror when I remember my first real sex toy. Now that I know more about toys, I realize the first one I used internally possibly leaked phthalates and poisonous chemicals into my body. I was 18, I knew nothing about sex toys, and my boyfriend said he wanted to buy me a toy that was less than $50. I honestly can’t remember why we chose the ugly blue Ultimate Beaver. I didn’t see or smell the toy before I purchased it, and the girl at the register gave me no opinion on my choice. Even if she knew it was gross, I don’t think she was allowed to say anything to me about the quality of the toy since this was way before the Sex Toy Ban in Texas was lifted (meaning sex toys were still only sold for “educational” purposes and were not acknowledged as actual sex toys.)
Luckily, I only used the toy once since I didn’t like how it felt and was grossed out by the material, and I ended up throwing it away. Afterwards, I stuck with my trusty plug-in “back massager” and was turned off of internal sex toys for a very long time. I eventually got a job at a lingerie/sex toy store, and for the past 3 years I’ve done my best to help people choose sex toys that will work for them and are safe to use, hoping to help others avoid my negative experience. Fortunately there are many more safe toys on the market today than when I bought my first sex toy, but the Ultimate Beaver, as well as countless other potentially unsafe jelly toys, are still sold on the internet and in some adult shops.
Since there are various types of sex toy materials (glass, silicone, rubber, etc.) as well as numerous sub-types within each category (jelly rubber, thermoplastic rubber, “realistic” rubber etc.) learning about toy materials can be confusing at first. To simplify, I’ll begin by explaining the best options for safe, hygienic sex toy materials.
Non-porous Toys
I strongly recommend choosing a sex toy material that is non-porous, such as pure silicone, glass, metal, ceramic, or hard plastic, especially if it is for internal use or for use with multiple partners. If a toy material is non-porous, that means it is easy to clean and sterilize, and it doesn’t have tiny pores in the material that can retain bacteria and possibly cause or transfer infections. Non-porous toys can be cleaned with unscented antibacterial soap and water or a 10% bleach 90% water solution. After cleaning the toy, rinse it well with water or a wet cloth to remove all cleaning solution. Some non-porous toys such as pure silicone can also be sterilized by boiling for 2-3 minutes or by running them in the dishwasher (on the top shelf, with no soap.) For more specifics on sex toy care and maintenance, check out this article.
If you decide to invest in a high quality nonporous sex toy, you’ll want to make sure that you are in fact buying what you really want—a high quality nonporous toy. Often sex toy companies label toys as silicone when they aren’t pure silicone and are actually something else, such as a silicone-elastomer (porous) blend. To avoid purchasing a misleadingly labeled “silicone” toy, buy a silicone toy from a trustworthy manufacturer and keep in mind that pure silicone toys should always be opaque and odor-free. If you aren’t sure if your toy is pure silicone, you can find out by performing a flame test. To view some examples of mislabeled silicone toys and to learn how to do a flame test, check out this article.
Stay Away from Phthalates
If you purchase a toy material that is porous (anything besides pure silicone, glass, metal, wood, ceramic, or hard plastic), the most important factor to consider is whether or not it contains harmful chemicals and or phthalates. Phthalates are esters of phthalic acid used to soften plastics and are commonly found in jelly, PVC, rubber, and latex sex toys. Toy materials that contain phthalates have a horrible odor, are often oily, and can potentially damage organs and cause cancer. To learn specifics about the harmful chemicals and phthalates in toys, read Dangerous Lilly’s Dangers of Jelly Sex Toys and Phthalates in Sex Toys. I strongly recommend avoiding these types of toys, but if you do use one, put a condom over it.
Porous Toys: Phthalate Free Materials
While non-porous toys are the most hygienic option, there are also some porous materials that are more durable than jelly/rubber toys and usually have little or no gross chemical smell. TPR, TPE, Elastomer, and silicone/TPR/TPE blends are porous but usually phthalate free. There are also some versions of TPR and TPE that are “medical grade” and non-porous, but if you aren’t sure, assume they’re porous. While these toys are safer than jelly toys, they can’t be sterilized and shouldn’t be shared with multiple partners. If you want to use a toy with one of these materials but are concerned about the porous aspect, use a condom or toy cover to help prevent bacteria build-up and infection.
Note: This is meant to be a general guide when considering what material to choose for your sex toy purchase; it is not an all inclusive detailed description of every possible material on the market. Within each material category (silicone, glass, rubber, realistic etc.), there are many different types of varying quality, and I recommend looking into/asking questions about your specific toy if you have any doubts about its safety or quality.
Roundup of Helpful Sex Toy Materials Links:
Dangerous Lilly:
Sex Toy Care and Maintenance
Dangers of Jelly Sex Toys
Phthalates in Sex Toys
Silicone Sex Toy Facts
Glass Sex Toy Facts
Flame Testing Silicone Sex Toys
Violet Blue:
I’m pretty new to Wanton Wednesday (I think I’ve participated in about 10), but that doesn’t mean I can’t join in the celebration
I am also celebrating some positive changes I am making in my life, including the fact that soon I will have much more time to devote to things that are important to me, like writing and blogging.
“This time, like all times, is a very good one, if we but know what to do with it.”
-Emerson
See more wantonness here:
e[lust] is a collection of the best sex related writing on the Internet; this month’s edition features my story about squirting for the first time. Enjoy!

Photo Courtesy of Vincent and Mia
Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Want to be included in e[lust] #36? Start with the newly updated rules, come back May 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!
~ Top 3 ~
Strangers in a bar – She sensed him move along the bar, he took the seat next to her his knee brushing her thin stockings as he took in her dress and the way it waved over her curvaceous figure.
Dealing with Abuse in Our Communities – We’re only human (yes, dominants ARE human) and mistakes happen. But what you do with the information that you’ve harmed someone is key.
Special Request – Walking to his desk, he pulled off his belt and put it on the left side, then pulled out a paddle and put it in the middle and then a cane on the right hand side.
~ Featured Post (Picked by Lilly) ~
What Keeps Us Going – We co-existed, and we were generally happy with each other, but we were dysfunctional. You know how people talk about becoming roommates rather than lovers? Guilty.
~ e[lust] Editress ~
Sex Toy Journalism: Seeking the Truths of Silicone via Flame Testing and Confronting Manufacturers – Why flame test? “Pure” silicone, be it food grade or medical grade, shouldn’t melt or deform under the heat of an open flame from a disposable lighter or match – a fact you’ll see demonstrated in the video
Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships
Comparisons Part Three
Cosmic Vibrations
Momentum: Reflections and Impressions
My Feminine Fountain is Finally Flowing (I squirted for the 1st time!)
PolyAnna’s Musings: Attraction
Q&A Number 1: Play Partners
Sexual Bucket List (and a Brief Diatribe on My Self Censorship Hang Up)
The “Dry Rut/Root”! Non-sex?
Intolerance – Contraception Debate, Religious Intolerance, & Grumpy Cooper
Erotic Writing
Come Together
Encounter in the Spa
Flame
Good Bad Sex
I needed him there and then
inside
Make Me Cum
Namaste
Onomatopoeia
Play Lady Play
Quitting While Ahead
Rampage – YSL’s birthday treats
sleep
the Confidante and I film ourselves
third
The first time I slept with the Girl in the Red Dress
Timing Is Everything
We drink each other’s cum
Kink & Fetish
Assignment from M
Buttons
Cigars
Fucked Raw
Foot fetishists, come talk to me
Imprints
Make Me
Nice vs. Good
On “Closure.”
Practicing My Religion
Please Fuck Me
Snap
Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor
Annie fucking Sprinkle
Voice and the Author
Photo by Studiocaze
This is an older photo of me, but I wanted to share it this week because it exemplifies what I strive for in life lately: playfulness, joy, enjoying every moment as it comes. I love the movement, blur and feeling of the photo, a perfect moment of happiness captured in time.
I often find myself caught up in thoughts, worries, plans. I constantly ask myself questions like, what is the perfect job for me? What is the purpose of life? Why are we so removed from nature? Why is society they way it is? Why is sex such a taboo, why can’t we talk about it? Why do I have to hide my job and my blog from so many people? Why is there so much focus on work in life, and why are rest and peace and happiness valued less than ambition, money, and “success”? Why are people so involved with and sometimes even addicted to social networks like Facebook? Where is all of this technology taking us? Is there a point in participating in politics? How can I really make a difference?
I could (and sometimes do) go on and on. While it’s good to ponder the big questions in life, I’ve found that many times the key to being happy for me is to let go and just enjoy “being” and living in the moment. I’ve read about mindfulness and hope to move towards practicing it more and enjoying every moment as it comes.
Lately I feel restless, like I’m always waiting. Waiting until I can travel, until I can see Jake again and get to bed since it seems were always working, until I can do what I want, until I can have a house with a yard and a garden, until I don’t have to worry about health insurance or job hunting or my often sketchy neighborhood.
But there’s always something to worry about; there’s always something to wait for. I’m tired of it, tired of waiting and worrying and focusing on whats not right in front of me.
Right now I am enjoying a warm cup of coffee, the calm quiet in my apartment, my adorable kitty sleeping next to me, and that’s all that matters.
I got on my computer and was searching for a photo to share for Wanton Wednesday, especially since it’s the anniversary edition, and this is what came out of me. While the photo and commentary aren’t exactly wanton in the typical definition (sexually promiscuous), they are wanton in the archaic definition–playful and carefree. Happy Anniversary Wanton Wednesday!
xxPenny