May 17, 2013
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~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~
How to Shave Your Asshole
Tied and Blindfolded
Why Disney is like BDSM
~ Featured Posts (Molly’s Picks) ~
Because you are so beautiful
Suspension of Disbelief
~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~
Dildology: The Science of Sex Toys
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May 14, 2013
In honor of Masturbation Month…
May 14, 2013
1. Answer Yes or No:
I Regret My First Kiss
First of all, I’m not sure what I should consider my first kiss. Was it the one on the cheek in 4th grade with my “boyfriend” who I shared with my two girlfriends? Or the first one with tongue when I was 14 with a guy I didn’t care about who tasted like old mints? Nah, I don’t regret either one.
I Miss My First Love
Sometimes I wonder how he is doing, but I don’t miss him in an “I want to see him” kind of way.
I Married My First Love
I Loved Someone That Didn’t Love Me
Truthfully, I’m not sure. There have been times when I thought I loved someone, but looking back I’m not sure I would still call it love.
2. Do you consider yourself monogamous or polyamorous or some other category which you will explain or define for us now?
This may sounds cliché, but I don’t like labels. Jake and I aren’t “monogamous” in the normal sense because we are open to having sexual experiences together with other partners, but we aren’t polyamorous either. We’re just….us. And before Jake, I had monogamous partners as well as one dysfunctional open relationship.
3. Your partner is in the mood for sex and you are tired – what do you do?
a. Start snoring. There is no way I’m giving it up tonight.
b. Trade. You give me a massage… and we will see…
c. That would never happen!
None of the above. I can get in the mood even when I’m tired, but sometimes I just don’t want to have sex, and Jake respects that as well.
4. Does your partner mind if you masturbate, in bed, when they are there?
If I’m masturbating in bed, and he’s around, we usually start to play or do some sort of mutual masturbation. So no, he doesn’t mind.
5. Describe your typical sexual romp:
a. You are playful and tame
b. You have occasionally introduced a few things like outfits and toys
c. You love trying new things and shocking your partner
Again, none of the above. I am playful, but I don’t consider myself tame. We try outfits and toys together sometimes, but they usually get tossed away pretty quickly. We do love trying new things, but neither of us really “shocks” each other; we’re both pretty open minded. Our typical sexual romp is…passionate, messy, and satisfying.
Bonus: What was your best ever masturbation experience. Why was it the best? Describe.
I can’t pick just one time…almost every time I orgasm I think it was the best orgasm ever because it’s the most recent one in my mind.
May 12, 2013
Me in my natural state: Nude with glasses, pigtails, and my camera.
May 6, 2013
1. My favorite place to masturbate is ________ ?
Either in bed or on the futon. I like to be comfortable.
2. Have you ever masturbated in public? What were the circumstances?
I actually don’t think I’ve ever masturbated in public, although I have had sex in public.
3. Do you like mutual masturbation? Why?
Yes definitely. I like doing it with Jake because the intimacy of watching how he touches himself turns me on, and it’s fun to tease each other and mix things up. I’ve even written a short erotic story about it…
4. When was the last time you masturbated?
Last night before going to sleep. Also, I’ve been touching myself a little while writing this. My clit has a mind of its own what can I say…
5. Have you ever masturbated on camera?
I’ve taken a few photos of myself while masturbating.
6. Do you like to watch people masturbate?
Yes, especially if it’s to me. I also like watching people have sex…and porn…
Bonus: Have you filmed yourself masturbating? Care to share that film via a link?
I’ve made some sexy home videos with Jake that included me touching myself, but no, I’m not sharing them here…although who knows maybe I will at some point.