Nov 21, 2014
e[lust] is a monthly digest of the best sex related writing on the Internet.
This month’s edition includes my erotic fan fic story Let’s Play a Game (Spuffy Erotica.)
Photo courtesy of Cheeky Minx
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~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~
Ownership: On Sexuality & Feminine Relations
Seven – A Fairytale of Sorts
~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~
The Love Letter of O
To My Single Submissive Friends – Be Brave
~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~
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What S/He Said: Pressing Stop
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Nov 19, 2014
On paper, the Shibari Halo Wand seemed like it would be an amazing wand vibrator. Its entire head is covered in non-porous silicone that doesn’t attract lint, it’s USB rechargeable1, and it’s waterproof. Although it’s large (12″), it’s light and fairly quiet.2 It’s also inexpensive ($55 from SheVibe) for all of the qualities it boasts.
Before I actually used it, I thought the Halo Wand would be strong enough to easily get me off. Oh boy, was I wrong. The Halo is strong enough to bring me right to the brink of orgasm, but its vibration feels surface level and not satisfying, and I can never quite get there. It’s like smelling a pizza but not being able to eat it. Or holding an amazing sex toy that I don’t have enough money to buy. It’s like I’m flying on the way to an exotic vacation, but instead of landing on white sand beaches and drinking margaritas, I’m doomed to circle in the stuffy plane forever with a screaming toddler kicking the back of my seat.
I liked to be teased in the right context, and I don’t think a sex toy necessarily has to get you off or get you off quickly to be worth using…but the Halo is a wand vibrator. It’s not trying to feel like oral or provide some unique stimulation–its purpose is to vibrate to orgasm, and it’s failing at life. About half the time I run and grab my Hitachi after I use the Halo in a desperate attempt to get the release I need, only to realize I feel desensitized. The other half of the time I use it, I just give up on orgasm all together.
I can get off from a wide range of vibration, but for some reason, the Halo just does not work for me. To the touch, the Halo feels very similar to the Mystic Wand, but my clit is much more perceptive, and the Mystic can get me off, while the Halo doesn’t. I did finally have an orgasm from it once, but it was when I was so aroused that I could’ve gotten off humping a pillow, so that hardly counts. And even then, it took longer than it should have and left me less than satisfied.
Besides that fact that the Halo Wand fails its basic purpose for me, it also has some other issues. For one, it’s advertised as a 10 speed vibrator, when in reality it only has 2 steady speeds and 8 vibration patterns. And you have to click through each speed to get to the next, so if you like a vibration pattern you have to go through all of the other patterns to get to it. Since it’s not that strong, it also seems unnecessarily large.
I’m picky when it comes to wand vibrators. I don’t like the Doxy either (though it can at least get me off), while many other bloggers love it. And some other bloggers like the Halo…so it’s possible you might like it even though I can’t stand it. So far the only wands I actually enjoy are the Hitachi & the Mystic (though I rarely use it since it’s battery operated.)
I really wanted to love the Shibari Halo Wand. Hell, I really wanted to at least like it. It’s sleek, its head is made of silicone, it’s rechargeable, it’s waterproof–all things I want to see from more wand vibrators. In theory you might enjoy it since we’re all different etc. etc., but after the depressing number of orgasms the Halo has ruined for me, I definitely don’t recommend it.
Thanks for sending me the Halo in exchange for my honest review, SheVibe!
Nov 18, 2014
This shot is B.M. (Before Mona), so it’s actually Emma’s Mona.
Nov 16, 2014
Recently Jake & I went on a mini road trip to see a show with friends…and let’s just say it was an awesome night!
Nov 13, 2014
This week’s edition of HedoVibes features my LELO Mona 2 review and image.
Photo courtesy of Penny for Your (Dirty) Thoughts
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