TMI Tuesday- Navigating Sex

1. Answer Yes or No:
I Regret My First Kiss

First of all, I’m not sure what I should consider my first kiss. Was it the one on the cheek in 4th grade with my “boyfriend” who I shared with my two girlfriends? Or the first one with tongue when I was 14 with a guy I didn’t care about who tasted like old mints? Nah, I don’t regret either one.

I Miss My First Love

Sometimes I wonder how he is doing, but I don’t miss him in an “I want to see him” kind of way.

I Married My First Love

No.

I Loved Someone That Didn’t Love Me

Truthfully, I’m not sure. There have been times when I thought I loved someone, but looking back I’m not sure I would still call it love.

2. Do you consider yourself monogamous or polyamorous or some other category which you will explain or define for us now?

This may sounds cliché, but I don’t like labels. Jake and I aren’t “monogamous” in the normal sense because we are open to having sexual experiences together with other partners, but we aren’t polyamorous either. We’re just….us. And before Jake, I had monogamous partners as well as one dysfunctional open relationship.

3. Your partner is in the mood for sex and you are tired – what do you do?
a. Start snoring. There is no way I’m giving it up tonight.
b. Trade. You give me a massage… and we will see…
c. That would never happen!

None of the above. I can get in the mood even when I’m tired, but sometimes I just don’t want to have sex, and Jake respects that as well.

4. Does your partner mind if you masturbate, in bed, when they are there?

If I’m masturbating in bed, and he’s around, we usually start to play or do some sort of mutual masturbation. So no, he doesn’t mind.

5. Describe your typical sexual romp:
a. You are playful and tame
b. You have occasionally introduced a few things like outfits and toys
c. You love trying new things and shocking your partner

Again, none of the above. I am playful, but I don’t consider myself tame. We try outfits and toys together sometimes, but they usually get tossed away pretty quickly. We do love trying new things, but neither of us really “shocks” each other; we’re both pretty open minded. Our typical sexual romp is…passionate, messy, and satisfying.

Bonus: What was your best ever masturbation experience. Why was it the best? Describe.

I can’t pick just one time…almost every time I orgasm I think it was the best orgasm ever because it’s the most recent one in my mind.

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2 thoughts on “TMI Tuesday- Navigating Sex”

  1. Dan

    Yes, do I count Carolyn P.? At 14 I went from ear to ear on the slow dance for to 45s and her skin so dry and my lips so tightly safely sealed that I swear to this day I don’t know if it “counts” as a kiss.

    See Greta Christina’s iconic article on what counts:

    http://gretachristina.typepad.com/greta_christinas_weblog/2006/09/are_we_having_s_1.html

    When dating (for the 1st time in 30 yrs at age 54) I made all my love prospects read/comment on this article; as sort of a get to know me test. Besides: it was fun. What do you think, Penny?

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