1. What one part of your sex life today would most surprise the 17 year old you?
Just about everything, I was pretty clueless back then. When I was 17, I had no idea that I had a g-spot, or that massaging it could make me squirt…
2. What one thing might shock that younger you?
Again, just about everything… Back then I couldn’t image that giving rough oral until I gag would turn me on, that I’d like to be choked, spanked, or slapped in the face. But I guess if I have to pick one thing, I’d say butt play would shock my 17 year old self the most. I never thought I would want to put anything inside my ass, much less have anal sex.
3. What part of the younger you’s (not necessarily at age 17) sex life do you look back on with the most nostalgia?
Honestly, I don’t miss much of my younger sex life. If I have to pick something, I guess the spontaneity of doing it in random places often, like in a parked car in a random neighborhood, or in the ocean while our friends were on the beach, or on a bathroom counter during a work Christmas party. I don’t have much public sex these days. Still, I don’t miss the cops knocking on my car window or getting walked in on by my boyfriend’s stepfather…
4. Is there anything in the younger you’s sexual ambitions or fantasies you have not yet fulfilled?
No, but there are plenty of current ones just waiting to become reality
Bonus: Give your 17 year old self a piece of sexual advice.
If I have to pick one thing, it would be to ignore everything the Catholic Church/religious Abstinence Only education told me about my body and my sexuality. But if I could give more specific advice, I’d also tell my (16) year old self to read more about sex, mess around with my first sweet boyfriend instead of dumping him for his friend, and not to jerk off the asshole from church who literally begged me until I did it just to shut him up, among about a million other things…
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